JAMC were obsessing over the personality tests today
So i went to relook at mine.... ESFJ. woah it's like someone is really peering into your soul, with some of the character descriptions. hahaha wonderful description by amos.
ESFJs like me have these weaknesses:
"Generally uncomfortable with change, and moving into new territories
Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism
Need a lot of positive affirmation to feel good about themselves
May be overly status-conscious, and interested in how others see them
Have very difficult time accepting the end of a relationship, and are likely to take the blame for the failure onto their own shoulders
Have difficulty accepting negative things about people close to them"
LOL SIGH. A lot of semi-true things that you wouldn't want to admit to yourself, but it's true (generally)
"ESFJs want to be appreciated for who they are, and what they give to others. This need of theirs is sometimes intensified to the point where they are very emotionally needy, and constantly "go fishing" for affirmation if it is not freely given. ESFJs typically cannot stand conflict or criticism. They take any sort of criticism as a general indictment of their character. This is a potential pitfall for ESFJs to be aware of. In the face of negative feedback, or the absence of positive affirmation, ESFJ may become very depressed and down on themselves. Appreciation is the greatest gift that their mates can give them."
Freak man, im a needy person. Not that i didn't know that already. But damn.
Haha life.