To add on to my original 4 resolutions (because i don't see any harm in posting them actually) and to put them into my brain once again because i realised i forgot most of what i typed within days of making them D:
1. Make proper goals and try to stick to them
2. Be independent. Don't turn to others so often to remedy your angst...
3. Even if others don't treat you right (or you don't think they do), be the best person (daughter/sister/friend) you can be, and let whatever happens, happen.
4. Cry less and smile more :)
(the continuation)
5. Exercise, don't eat excessively, reach 45kg!!
not crazy skinny, but the kind that has toned muscles hahaha... refer to Step Up 2 girl's body HAHA i am such a stalker xD i guess one can always dream big. i want to wear ANYTHING i want without feeling self-conscious. and i really mean ANYTHING.
6. Do more service/ Volunteer more out of the goodness of your heart.
I realise i've been slacking off in recent months since BLYC activities have stopped and there was A's and then after-As enjoyment, feel kinda guilty... i really need to find somewhere to volunteer my time since boonlay IS REALLY FAR... but it's scary to start all over again with unfamiliar faces :/)
7. Listen to others more. (a very big flaw of mine is not knowing the right questions to ask ppl to find out more about them, i feel like im intruding or being KP half the time, that's why i give up questioning after 2-3 qns. Stop that!)
8. Be a more kind, generous, nice, patient, understanding, good natured person. Don't hold grudges or badmouth people so much. Do things for people whether they ask you to or not, whether it is out of your way or not. Be less mean, say nice things to people and mean them from the bottom of your heart. (Basically: Behave like ______ ) Haha there's 1 or 2 people (or more like angels?) i know but who i wont mention or they paiseh, but shall be my sources of inspiration :) eh not bad, 1 from ea gender, an equal representation :D
9. Spend more time with the people i love and the people who i should treasure more.
10. Put in utmost effort (be it getting a job, volunteering, uni, studies, club activities) Yes studies, please don't waste any more of your academic life slacking away fruitlessly.
11. Keep in contact with everyone whose paths will all diverge from mine in little or large ways and those who have already diverged. (was thinking back to the old times, and regretting losing touch with some people already D: maybe it is never too late to try)
12. Love. Not necessarily referring to the r/s kind, but love for my friends and my family. I guess it ties in with number 8. If you love the person and want the best for them, you will go out of your way for them. Wrt to relationships, let it be the right person, for the right reasons, at the right timing. Or not at all.
13. Do something you truly like, or something you know you will develop an even greater passion for (though you might not deeplyyyy like it yet, but being not averse to it in the first place would help.... a great deal.)
I think it's really hard to do this though. Every self-help article and inspirational speech talks about this, but it's really really hard to follow one's heart (if you even know what it says in the first place) when there's a more logical or perhaps easier/more practical path to take :( the pressure to conform/to follow the path that's more trodden on.
14. End this resolution list. HEHE BYEBYE (and with that, ive done one resolution already. hee hee who says making simple goals are self-defeating? Au contraire, it makes you feel accomplished!)
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